maundering: 1. Talk in a rambling manner. 2. Move or act in a dreamy or idle manner

Song of the week, or song of the month, or maybe even song of the year


its called Maundering. And its about good.

Don't Worry!

Its okay, its totally okay to be running around like crazy for most days of the week. Its okay because spring is coming. Its okay because schools almost over (by almost i mean another year). Its okay because the things I'm learning are really helpful and educational tools I will use in action as a professional.
Its okay because sometimes i get to go to bed at 8 on wednesday nights. If i skip yoga.

but mostly, it's okay because of :
newborn polar bears.


much much love to you all.
i've had a headache for a week.

"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter"

Sing, Dr. King

I have been thinking a lot about this holiday, and what it means to me and the within culture i exist. There are discussions floating around the internet that debate what MLK would think about today's society, culture, and politics. I read one thing that claimed Dr. King would support the war in Afghanistan. I'm not too sure about that.
When i was younger, my dad always took me to go march for human rights at the university. We would show up early in the morning, make signs, and walk through downtown Boise. I was really affected by this ritual, and i think that it has made me more open to think outside the system.
I remember we got to see one of his children speak on one occasion. It was special, i could feel that in my bones.



What would Dr. King think if i used the holiday to march my own agenda. It's not racial, but it human rights. People deserve to breath clean air. People deserve a healthy wilderness. But my heart is saying that marching for environmental stuff isn't the correct way to honor Dr. King's day.

Last year, i spent MLK day in the desert with some friends, and i learned about myself and how important it is to be self reliant. True liberation comes from being truly self reliant. (follow that link to find the blog)

Anyways, i think MLK day is an important holiday for me to consider what i am doing in my communities to bring love and connection, and how i can be a more tolerant and loving member of my society and this Utah Valley culture.

Here is a video of 10 MLK quotes :)



He was a leader, a moving speaker, a great observer. His words are healing and motivating.

So, what are you doing this January 17th?

Opposable Thumbs (i got one!)

Opposable thumbs= primates.
evolution... it is a theory, but so is gravity.
And it makes a lot of sense.

one of the coolest classes i ever took was evolutionary psychology. it had 3 professors: a psychologist, a literature professor, and a primatologist.

we would learn about different psychological attributes in humans and then examine them on an evolutionary basis: from something as simple as social aggression and politics to things like why women pursue the blonde bombshell look.

I really loved when the primatologist lectured- he always brought in great videos and pictures to show us how similar we are to primates, especially to bonobos and chimps. There are viscious primates too, like baboons (they move like lions)

here's something sweet -- self awareness in primates and humans:



if you're interested in evolutionary psychology, check out the book Why Beautiful People Have More Daughters. It's entertaining, well researched and fascinating. A good plane read, couch read, or desk read.


and now- something adorable:


if it comes down to being a chimp or a chump, i think i'd like to be a chimp.

dm stith

he only has one album out- heavy ghost. but he's fantastic. and he opened for sufjan on this last tour.

beautiful.



maybe i should become a waitress again so i can buy cd's.

thank you divine comedy

its the last day of the semester! then its finals week... and i'm finding that perhaps the best thing about BYU is BYU divine comedy:



or it could be the amount of RMs that wear the hats they got on their missions to school.

or it could be the nerds.

or it could be the gardeners.

but its probably divine comedy:




enjoy!

The Power of Play

i know i just posted some videos about climbing. but this video is more than just about climbing:



I was looking for a good strong woman climber to study, and i found one. But this video shows me more than that. It shows me how we can connect through cultures by recreation. This is something we discuss in my Leisure in Contemporary Society class. There are many organizations that are sponsoring this sort of thing, bringing happiness and joy to places where children and people are suffering through recreation.
A pretty mainstream group is called "Right to Play International" -and here is there website- www.righttoplay.com
They go to many different countries around the world and implement play and sports organizations. This helps bring joy and meaning to the children there, children who have been through hard things (like civil wars and genocide). Play gives these children hope and allows them to be children. I recommend looking at Right to Play's videos.
There are many studies that talk about how play and leisure benefits the very basic parts of life.

There is also this book:
This is an amazing book that i recommend to anyone. It talks about the growing national, cultural, and human problem that the author, Richard Louv, identifies as Nature-Deficit Disorder. In this books many of societies problems are discussed, and the roots of these problems all lead back to the fact the we, as a culture and a people, do not have enough play time and that our children are suffering. He even discusses a study that put children with ADD and ADHD outside (in an area where they could run free and see green plants) for 45 minutes a day. The results show exactly the same effect as any ADD drug such as aderoll or ritalyn. Louv suggests that in most cases, outside time could be used as a direct remedy for hyperactivity.

Well, Duh. But i guess we need to hear it.
Further than that, play gives impoverished children (and adults) a reason to get up and be happy. This novel talks about the effects of putting at risk youth in adventure programs; the confidence and ability it fosters. After these programs, some kids change their life paths, pursuing education and healthy careers. But even if they don't, they have felt triumphant and strong.

Kids need chaos to form emotionally, physically, mentally, and spiritually. Play provides the chaos.


The more and more I learn about this field, the more I know its the right thing to do. So pick up Last Child in the Woods and look for some research on the power of play. It makes a difference.